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You don't have to live in survival mode anymore

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Get the support you need to live without reactivity, fear or dependency. This isn’t talk therapy. It’s nervous system coaching that helps your body unlearn the patterns you developed around emotional chaos.

Get 6 Weeks of Private Coaching + A Customized Mediation To Continue The Work At Home

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MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN

$297

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BEST VALUE

$997

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You keep ending up right back in it.

You’ve read the books. You’ve analyzed the patterns. You know exactly WHY it happens.

But somehow, IT STILL HAPPENS.


That’s because you can’t think your way out of this.


You felt your way into it.
You have to feel your way out.

This private coaching program helps you do that by working with the part of you that logic can’t reach. The part that still braces, freezes, or folds when things feel familiar. We’ll help your brain and body get on the same page, so you can start calling the shots in your own life again.

This is the piece that gets you out of it for good.

You can UNDERSTAND WHY you shut down, people-please, or get reactive… yet still feel your body do it anyway.

That’s because survival mode runs on emotional memory, not logic.


Your system isn’t waiting for another aha moment. It’s waiting to feel safe enough to update the story it’s been living in.

That’s what this work does.


It guides you through a natural process called memory reconsolidation... the brain’s way of re-storing old memories with new emotional truth.

You’re not forcing yourself to “be different.”


You’re helping your system finally understand that the danger is over.


And when that clicks, the old reactions stop running the show.

You’ve been holding it together long enough.


It’s time to get out of survival mode.

This is deep, one-on-one work.

No group calls. No generic modules. No “one size fits all” process. This is personal.

Private coaching designed for your story, your patterns, and the way your nervous system learned to survive.

We’ll meet one-on-one each week over Zoom where you’ll get my full attention. Each session builds on the last, responding to what’s showing up for you in real time. You’ll have space to be honest, to unpack what’s been running on autopilot, and to experience what real support actually feels like.

This isn’t about talking your way out of pain or trying to “stay positive.” That’s just survival mode in disguise.

It’s about being guided through the process that helps your system finally let go, so you can stop bracing for impact and start feeling safe in your own life again.

Here's What To Expect

SESSION 1

Awareness & Mapping

We’ll identify your most pressing emotional loops, protective patterns, and triggers that that are affecting your life most today.

session 2

Core Wound Discovery

We’ll trace those reactions to their emotional origin, the place your system first learned that love or safety came with a cost.

Memory Reconsolidation Process

You’ll be guided through the brain’s own process for updating emotional memory. The charge that once ran the show begins to dissolve, and calm becomes your new default.

SESSIONS 3 - 5

MEMORY RECONSOLIDATION PROCESS

You’ll be gently guided through the brain’s own process for updating emotional memory. The charge that once ran the show begins to dissolve, and calm becomes your new default.

SESSION 6

Integration & Reinforcement

We’ll anchor your new emotional baseline and strengthen the neural pathways that support calm, clarity, and confidence, so you can claim real peace in your life.

...AND BEYOND

Locking In Change

After your final session, you’ll receive a personalized meditation built around the new, empowering beliefs we uncovered together, helping your brain and body integrate those truths until they feel natural and automatic.

You’ll also get a 30-minute follow-up call within a few weeks to check in, answer questions, and reinforce the progress you’ve made, so the work continues to integrate long after the program ends.

"I was floored when I realized how much our sessions were changing my life."

It's like everything got incrementally better. They were small changes at first, but definitely enough to notice!

John B.

You can’t see your own blind spots from inside the story

Let me help you get out of your head, into the real work, and seeing results in weeks not years.

I know how it feels to outgrow your life and still be haunted by it...

My name is Christina, and I’m a trauma-informed coach and creator behind Common Ego, where I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of people understand and heal from narcissistic abuse and emotional conditioning.

My work blends neuroscience, psychology, and lived experience — with a focus on memory reconsolidation, the process that allows the brain to unlearn emotional pain at its source.

I’ve spent the past five years guiding survivors out of survival mode and back into calm, clarity, and self-trust. This program is the most focused version of that work: real conversations, real change, one-on-one support.

So… are you ready to finally feel like
yourself
again?

To think clearly, feel strong, and move forward without the weight of the past dragging you down?

Because that future isn’t just possible—it’s waiting for you.

This Coaching Program Is For You If You Are Someone Who...

Can’t Stop Thinking About the Narcissist

You replay conversations, analyze their behavior, and wonder if it was really that bad. You’re stuck in an endless loop of doubt, longing, and frustration—unsure how to finally
let go for good.

Feels Like They Lost Themselves

You used to be confident, fun, and full of life. Now? You barely recognize yourself. The self-doubt, anxiety, and constant second-guessing have taken over, and you just want to feel normal again.

Is Done But Still Feels Stuck

Maybe you’ve gone no contact, maybe they moved on, but somehow… they still have a hold on you. Whether it’s the emotional triggers, lingering guilt, or fear of repeating patterns, you need help breaking free—for real this time.

If you've already...

gone no contact, blocked them on everything, and sworn you’re done—but they still live rent-free in your head—this is the missing piece.

Healing isn’t just about cutting them off. It’s about rewiring the part of you that still feels trapped.

It's time to wave goodbye to ...

the constant overthinking, the emotional whiplash, and the exhausting push-pull that keeps you trapped in the past. No more obsessing over what went wrong. It’s time to reclaim your peace.

Ready? Let's do this!

Stop Letting Survival Mode Call The Shots

Step into the calm, grounded life you actually deserve

$749

for a very limited time!

full package price includes:

✅ six 50-minute 1:1 sessions with christina through zoom*

messaging support between sessions (for questions or reflections that come up mid-week)

30-minute follow-up call within 30 days of completing your program

✅ bonus: personalized meditation to continue the work AT HOME

*Sessions available Tuesdays and Thursdays between 9am and 5pm CST

Got Questions? Get Answers!

Can I book a different time every week?

When you book your first time slot, you'll automatically be added to that time every week until the program ends. For example: if you choose Monday at 9am for week one, you'll be added to the 9am slot for every week in the program.

Ideally, you'll choose one time that works and we'll meet at that time every week. But I understand life happens and I don't want you to miss out on an entire session. If you can't make a session, we can roll over into the next available week.

But please do try to keep the schedule as set (the program is designed to work this way).

How is this different from therapy?

Therapy often helps you understand why you feel the way you do. This work goes a layer deeper, helping your brain update the emotional memory that keeps old pain alive. It’s a structured, forward-focused process designed to create real nervous-system change, not just insight.

How fast will I notice a difference?

Most clients start feeling lighter and more stable within the first few sessions.


The changes build as your system begins to trust safety again — and because this process works at the memory level, the results keep strengthening long after we finish.

Are coaching packages refundable?

Unfortunately, coaching sessions are not refundable. Because they require a time commitment on both sides, we're making a commitment to work together to help you accomplish your goals.

If you signup and cannot make all or most of your sessions, please email me and we can either find another time slot or fit you into the next program.

What happens if I miss a session?

This program is designed to be completed in six weeks, so ideally you'll show up to each session and get the maximum benefit. But I totally get that life throws us curveballs. If you cannot make your session, please email me as soon as possible and we'll find a time for you to reschedule (even if we have to extend your program another week).

I do, however, have a stricter policy on no-shows. If you do not reschedule your session before it begins and do not show up within the first 15 minutes of the session, you will forfeit that session.

Is my information kept private?

As a coach, I take privacy very seriously. I will not share the contents of our sessions or related communications to the outside world. This means you can rest assured that I won't be sharing your story or personal information through any public or private channels. Any stories I do share via social media or email newsletters are shared with permission from the client.

Now for the technical stuff:

  • 1:1 sessions are held via Zoom and will never be recorded without your written consent.

  • I keep hand-written notes for a period of at least 6-months from the latest session.

  • Please understand that emails or other forms of communication sent over the internet are never fully secure. We can talk through more secure ways to share information if you're concerned with this, but in the meantime, avoid sharing any sensitive personal information via email. And this goes for ALL communication (not just in the scope of coaching)

What happens after I enroll?

After you enroll, you’ll get an instant confirmation email with a link to your first Zoom session. I suggest adding it to your digital calendar if you use one. This way, the time zone will automatically translate so there's no confusion. You'll also be scheduled at the same time for each of the four weeks.

How does messaging between sessions work?

You can message me through an app (Voxer) that uses end-to-end encryption. Please understand that messages are not unlimited in quantity, so let's keep it to a limit of reaching out once or twice between sessions.

What's the deal with the personalized meditation?

This isn’t a generic relaxation track with your name dropped in. It’s a custom meditation built around your core emotional shift: the exact program rewrite we uncover during your sessions.

It’s designed to help your nervous system lock in the new pattern we created together, so the change continues to deepen between sessions.

You’ll get a private link to your personalized meditation within 7 days of your final session.

Most clients use it as a daily reminder of safety and truth... a way to keep their system anchored in the new story, long after our work is done.

How do I schedule my follow-up call?

Along with your personalized meditation, you'll receive a link to schedule your follow-up call.

What if I’m nervous about starting?

That’s completely normal. Most people are, especially when they’ve tried everything else.

Just know: you’ll be guided the whole way. This process is gentle, collaborative, and designed to help your system feel safe every step of the way.

The only information you need to bring to the first session is about the feeling or pattern you'd rather not keep repeating. From there, we'll work together to figure out what's going on beneath the surface and how to address the core wound behind it so you can feel less triggered and find more peace in your life.

The process flows seamlessly from the first session.

"Christina has helped me to get past so much of the pain that I’ve suffered due to narcissistic abuse."

I was surrounded by it as a child and find that in adulthood, I seem to attract the abuse more often that I’d like to admit. I’ve learned about boundaries, I’ve learned about projection, and reactive abuse, the blame shifting, the accusations of being unworthy and unlovable, the rage abuse, I’ve seen it all. It’s very destructive and was eroding my mental health.

I don’t feel guilt in leaving some of them behind, where I once would. Where I once would find a way to fix it or serve them in order to make things better, I now let them have their own lives and consequences. I’m not here to save anyone. Boy that was a lesson, and a huge relief. It’s not my job anymore to make others happy or comfortable. I make sure that I am comfortable and happy first. A full 180 degrees and I feel so much better.

BEN A.